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Flowers on Tuesday | Relationship Advice
🤍 Hosted by Maureen Evelyn
You're not asking for too much. You're just tired of being the one who plans, texts first, and wonders where it's going.
Every week on Flowers on Tuesday, Maureen Evelyn and her husband Niklavs answer your real questions about dating and relationships, the ones you'd only ask your group chat at 1am. Age gaps. Red flags. Situationships that won't define themselves. Why he went distant. What to say when you want more and don't want to scare him off.
The difference here: you get both answers. Hers and his. Most dating advice is women guessing about men. On this show, you hear it straight from one.
Maureen is the founder of Alora, a dating and relationship app that's answered over 100,000 questions from women who were done guessing. This is that, out loud, no games, no tactics.
Just warm, direct advice on building the kind of love where he shows up without being asked. Unprompted. On a Tuesday. Flowers in hand.
New episodes every week. Send us your question and we might answer it on the show.
Try Alora free for 7 days: alora.love/7dayfreetrial
Episodes
22 episodes
Do LESS For Him, and He'll Love You More
In this episode we break down exactly why doing more for a man actually can end up pushing him away from you and exactly what to do instead. If you've been cooking for him, texting first, planning the dates, and somehow he still fee...
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Why He Goes Cold: The Dating Mistake You're Making
Why does it feel like 8 out of 10 guys you like turn avoidant? In this episode, Niklavs and I break down the real psychology behind why men pull away, and why chasing them only makes it worse. We cover how to spot a truly avoidant m...
Why "Doing More" For Him Doesn't Make Him Love You More
I used to think that if I just did enough for the man I was with, he would eventually love me more. So I was always bending over backwards, cooking elaborate meals, writing four page letters, doing acts of service I thought would make him chase...
We Answer YOUR Dating Questions (Age Gaps, Red Flags & More)
Niklavs joins me on the podcast to answer your dating and relationship questions together, and this one is packed. We cover the truth about dating with an age gap, why dating feels expensive and exhausting (and how to fix that), the...
He pulled away? Stop acting like his manager
When you start approaching dating like a CEO, everything gets lighter. Instead of pouring endless energy into proving yourself, you get to step back and ask a better question. Is this actually the right man for me?So many of us...
He cheated? Good. Heres the truth about dating
Men are like oil paintings. You can't change them, and you shouldn't have to.In this video, I share the mindset shift that completely changed how I date, treating every interaction as data, not a reflection of your worth. When you stop ...
I almost gave up on love… then a stranger took me to Paris
I met my husband on LinkedIn & married him 15 months laterI was honestly so tired of medicore men on dates. I was starting to think I'd never meet my person, breakups with unaligned men hurt. Then on a random weekday, sitting by a p...
Why this dragon fruit strategy makes men obsessed with you
If you've been trying to change him, hint at what you want, drop suggestions, hope he'll finally "get it" this video is for you.I'm sharing the dragon fruit rule: why the women who feel calm and chosen in love aren't out here t...
10 minutes on how to make him obsessed (the method queens used)
How to make him obsessed with you - Anne Boleyn made Henry VIII shower her with jewels, write her desperate love letters, and beg her to be with him for years. that's not luck. that's dating psychology.In this video I break down how to ...
Raise your standards so high your next date is your husband
Ladies, if you're tired of almost-relationships and want to find your ACTUAL future husband, this podcast is for you. I'm breaking down why most women are dating with the wrong mindset and how raising your standards will completely transform yo...
Make Him Obsessed By Focusing On Yourself
If you've ever felt that panic when he suddenly gets distant, this video is for you. I'm breaking down the real psychology behind why men need space and the counterintuitive approach that actually works.What you'll learn:• The "rubb...
Visualize The Love You Actually Deserve
Close your eyes. What does the love you actually deserve feel like? Not the love you've been accepting, the love you've been dreaming about. In this super short but powerful episode, Maureen walks you through a visualization that will shift how...
How To Build a Life So Good, He Wants In
In this episode, Maureen breaks down the mindset shift that changes dating completely: stop trying to be chosen and start building a life so full, confident, and magnetic that the right man wants in. She explains why fulfillment comes first, ho...
If He Stops Texting, Don’t Chase, Do This
In this episode, Maureen Evelyn discusses the dynamics of texting in relationships, emphasizing the importance of self-worth and personal growth. She encourages listeners to build fulfilling lives beyond their interactions with men, highlightin...
Why Trying Harder Is Making Him Pull Away
Stop chasing. Start attracting.In this episode, Maureen Evelyn breaks down why trying harder in dating often backfires, and what to do instead. Learn the simple shifts that make men step up, pursue you, and take you seriously without...
He Flirts With Other Women? Good. Treat Him Like a Sponge.
This podcast offers essential relationship advice using a powerful sponge analogy to illustrate that men, like sponges, cannot be fundamentally changed, especially when it comes to dating and flirtatious behaviors. It's crucial to u...
I Built a 6-Figure Business by Doing What Most Women Are Afraid Of
On this episode I'm interviewed by Jess from CMO school, Rejection used to paralyze me. Every piece of content felt like putting myself on trial. Sound familiar? In this raw episode, I'm sharing the mindset breakthrough that transformed my r...
5 Proven Ways to Love the Life You Live
In this episode I breakdown simple and practical things you can actually do to love your life.
After Reading 100 Self Improvement Books I Learned They All Teach One Thing
After reading over 100 self-improvement books, I came to a surprising realization: they all teach the same thing. Whether it's about fitness, mindset, business, or health, every book emphasizes one core principle: taking action. A...
You Need To Stop Acting Like The "Main Character" Do This Instead
this one is for you, you need to start acting like the director instead. Download my app Alora https://alora.love/7dayfreetrial
How To GLOW UP and RADIATE FEMININE ENERGY
This episode shows you exactly how to tap into your unique feminine energy with my unique and simple 15-step frameworkđź’ž To tap into your feminine energy and build your dream life, you need to prioritize self-improvement, gratitude,...
Exactly How To Create Your DREAM Lifestyle
In today's episode, we’re going to be covering exactly how to create your dream lifestyleI've used this method to help clients reach their goals, this has radically changed the way I approach my life as well. I've had women alm...
